Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Saturday, March 15, 2014

dinner on the farm (chocolate sheet cake)

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Eight years ago, I moved to a small town in Iowa, never thinking that my roots would have grown so deep so fast. I thought I would have high tailed it back to Minneapolis within a year, two at most. I can hardly catch my breath when I count the years that I haven't lived in Minnesota (12!), and wonder what life would have been like if a quick decision I made after college had been any different.

Life in Washington has been nothing short of amazing. Nic and I grew together as an engaged couple living in our first apartment together above a funeral home (best apartment ever!) into a mostly happy married couple, we have grown professionally, we have left our professions to pursue passions, and we have dreamed many dreams about what path we will travel next and what future it will lead to.

Perhaps it is the effect of living in a small town, perhaps it is just in my blood, but one dream that never fizzles is my desire to buy a chunk of land and farm on a very small scale. I often tell people I am one generation removed from the farm - my mom grew up on a farm, and moved to the cities to raise our family. The farm is in my blood though, and I fondly remember many weekend trips and summer vacations spent on my Grandma and Grandpa's farm.

Visits to the farm were never the same. We might spend the entire day playing in the old shed that was barely standing in the small woods, digging up beads of a broken necklace in the mud just outside the door that had belonged to my mom or one of her sisters, thinking of course that we were unearthing some old Native American ceremonial bracelet. We might spend an afternoon walking with the cows down to the big woods, keeping a safe distance as stories of Mom being chased up a tree by a bull remained fresh in our memories. In the winter, we would bundle up, gather all the sleds we could find and Grandpa would give us a ride down on the tractor to our favorite sledding hill where we would spend hours sledding in to the woods and trudging all the way back up to do it all over again. The corn crib on the corner, near the gravel road, would become our home base, scaling the sides to see who could climb the highest, sweeping out loose corn kernels and emptying them out for the cows on the other side of the electric fence (and only getting shocked once).

As varied as our visits were, a few things always remained the same. Saturday mornings I would be lured from sleep by the smell of blueberry muffins in the oven and coffee brewing (a combination of scents that will always bring me back to that upstairs bedroom, in that twin bed in the corner, on the farm), Sunday mornings were for church and children's time with the Pastor, followed by coffee and donuts (and old ladies) in the church basement.

And then, always, Sunday dinner back at the farm. Just the thought of it, and I swear I can smell my Grandma's kitchen. A roast with potatoes and carrots in the oven, mashed potatoes and gravy bubbling away on the stove, and maybe some fresh bread cooling on the counter...nothing can top this combination of scents. A smell that nearly every farm family, and every family in the Midwest is familiar with. A smell that can comfort the soul. If someone could figure out how to bottle up that specific smell, I am sure it would be a best seller to people in the Midwest and those who have moved away, but still crave the memories of Sunday dinners on the farm.

These dinners would be followed by naps in the recliner (Grandpa) and walks in the woods. Really, these were just moments to create a little more room for the pots of coffee and dessert that followed.

This cake, a humble chocolate sheet cake with the most incredible coconut topping, is the kind of cake that we would dig in to, with those multiple mugs of coffee. It is one of those cakes that would be served after church in the basement. Best served with a mug of weak Midwestern coffee, with family surrounding you.

Chocolate Lazy Daisy Sheet Cake

The recipe is from Amy Thielen's The New Midwestern Table cookbook, that captures the real food of the Midwest. She should know - she is a Minnesotan, who after a stint in the Big Apple, moved back to Minnesota in 2008. She won a James Beard journalism award for her work appearing in The Minneapolis Star Tribune, Men's Journal and Saveur. Amy is also the hostess of Food Network's Heartland Table.

Chocolate Lazy Daisy Sheet Cake
From Amy Thielen's The New Midwestern Table, available here.

Ingredients:
2 1/4 cups cake flour
1/2 cup unsweetened cocoa powder
3/4 teaspoon sea salt
1/4 cup boiling water
1 tablespoon baking soda
9 ounces salted butter
2 cups granulated sugar
1 cup buttermilk
2 large eggs
3/4 cup cold coffee
2 teaspoons vanilla extract
1 1/2 cups light brown sugar, lightly packed
1/2 cup coconut milk
2 cups flaked or shredded coconut, sweetened or unsweetened

Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Butter and flour a 9 x 13 inch baking pan.

Sift flour, cocoa powder and salt in a medium bowl. In a small dish, pour the boiling water over the baking soda and stir to combine.

Melt 10 tablespoons of the butter and pour into a large bowl. Whisk in sugar, buttermilk, eggs, coffee and vanilla. Add the flour mixture, whisk until smooth, and then stir in the baking soda mixture, scraping the dish to get all of it.

Pour the batter into the prepared baking pan and bake until a thin tester inserted into the center of the cake comes out clean, about 35 minutes. Let cool.

Turn on the broiler and position an oven rack 6 inches below it.

For the topping, combine the remaining 8 tablespoons butter, brown sugar and the coconut milk in a saucepan over medium-high heat. Bring to a simmer, stirring to cook until the grains of brown sugar melt, about one minute. Stir in the flaked coconut and remove from heat.

When the broiler is ready, spread the coconut topping gently and evenly over the top of the cake. Broil the cake, keeping watch and rotating as necessary, until the entire surface has browned, about three minutes. Cool before cutting the cake into squares.

Enjoy with aforementioned weak coffee and family, or in a church basement with your grandparents friends.


Source: Thielen, Amy. "Chocolate Lazy Daisy Sheet Cake." Recipe. The New Midwestern Table. New York: Clarkson Potter Publishers. 325. Print.

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

april road trip

This post should have been done almost two months ago. Funny how life gets in the way of something so important.

Scratch that - this post should have been done 7 months ago..........

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Monday, April 15th marked the 10 year anniversary of my dad passing away from cancer.

The date had been on my mind for years.

I wanted to do some grand gesture.

My first goal, after doing some date checking a few years ago, was to qualify for and run the Boston Marathon. I was 2 minutes to slow to go. My dreams were crushed, but perhaps this was a blessing in disguise?

My second goal was to run for 10 hours and raise $10,000 to donate to the American Cancer Society.

$10,000 is a lot.

10 hours is a long time.

Scratch that.

I could go visit my sister in Stockholm. She was in Berlin.
I could go visit my brother in Georgia. He was in Arizona.

Taking a moment to come up with a new idea, something clicked.

I have spent the last 10 years of my life devoted to honoring my dad. 

Everyday I work to fight a disease that took his life. Everyday I work with volunteers to raise hundreds of thousands of dollars to invest in research, programming and resources. Everyday I hear sad stories of family members lost to cancer, and happy stories of a family member winning their 3rd battle with cancer.

While I might not think of my dad everyday, it is because of him that I do what I do.

I think that is a pretty grand gesture.

With that in mind, new ideas emerged.

A 150 mile bike trip along the Root River Trail. This was going to be the perfect way to spend a long weekend with my husband, doing what we love, while adding in a few things that reminded me of dad.

All set and ready to go, the weather took a turn and the forecast went from sunny and warm to cold and snow.

Again we went back to the drawing board, mapping out different plans for a 4 day weekend, calculating miles, hours on the road, and our level of craziness.

In the end, we put pen to paper and jotted down a few things that had to be accomplished for the weekend. We would use this list to dictate what we did, where we went, all while having few expectations.

The perfect road trip formed. Taking us from Iowa to Illinois, Wisconsin, Minnesota and back to Iowa. From ruebens piled high with homemade corned beef, to interesting pizza, crappy cookies, and perfect vodka sours. We laughed out loud, danced in the car, and walked 4 miles too long with no socks. 4 states, many miles, and lots of memories. This was the perfect way to reconnect with the one I love most while celebrating a man that I miss terribly.

Road. The final frontier. These are the voyages of Nic and Kier.

Wait - that's all wrong.

But it was the perfect way to kick off our voyage.

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Cuddled together on the floor of our home, we connected to Hulu and watched the first episode of Star Trek The Next Generation - a long time family favorite. Or at least - a long time favorite of Dad's that us kids begrudgingly watched on whatever night it aired for oh so many years. 


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We hit the road early the next morning with our ever growing list of things to accomplish.


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Less than 2 hours in to our trip, we crossed one thing off our list, getting lost, or taking the scenic route as Dad use to tell us as he drove down dirt roads trying to find the cabin we would stay at for a summer vacation.

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A few great views and a made up song or two by Nic, we found the way back to where we needed to be. Getting lost = so much fun.

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Augustana College, my alma matter - but wait? We are in Illinois - I went to Augie in South Dakota (interesting fact, I went to college in the town that my dad was born in, Sioux Falls).

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A quick stop in Le Claire, Iowa for some shopping, antiquing, and liquor tasting.

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Where does the sidewalk end? Apparently in Le Claire, Iowa!

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I found my family's heritage! Although you might not know it, I have some Kickapoo genes in me thanks to my dad's family. 1/64 or 1/128...it might not be much though.

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This is how you dance in the car.

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We must have been listening to some Tom Petty?

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Detour to take a photo of my dream barn!

The first day we drove to La Crosee, WI to stay with my step sister and her family - it was a great stop and necessary, as any road trip wouldn't be complete without car troubles. We had planned to drive to Madison the following morning, but considered reconsidering so we could fix our car. Thankfully my brother-in-law was a gem and let us borrow his car while he fixed ours - how awesome is that?

So we head out for Madison super early, so we could grab breakfast before watching a live taping of NPR's Whad' Ya KNow, one of our favorite weekend programs.

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And then we walked around Madison, for far too long, in the sleet, without socks.

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Totally worth it. Especially after I stopped at a bike shop to buy some socks and then committed a cardinal sin - wearing socks with sandals.

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Best part of the weekend - this Ruben from Stalzy's Deli. Go there now. Super delicious.

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Sign we were in the right spot - Hubbard Ave. Hubbard was Dad's middle name.

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But his middle name might as well have been Car Talk.

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The super funny (sarcasm?) program that us kids were forced to listen to on our way down to visit our grandparents. Ironically enough, I always listen to it on the weekend now.

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Historic markers anyone? Another favorite road trip past time.

On Sunday, we made our way to Grand Meadow to have lunch with my dad's family a the new winery. They were generous to work with me in advance and had them make a few of Dad's favorite pizza combination for everyone - shrimp and sauerkraut. Interesting. And strangely really good! 

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Dad would have to order his own pizza with this toppings every single time we went to our favorite hole-in-the-wall pizza place where we grew up. I wouldn't touch it with a ten foot pole then.

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Despite the rain, we all headed out to the cemetery for a vodka sour toast.

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This, was my favorite part of the weekend.

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Dad's brothers Tom and Kelly, me, sister-in-law Julie, sister Tracy and brother-in-law Mark.

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On Monday, Nic and I headed North a bit to have lunch at Little Oscar's - another hole-in-the-wall diner that we would stop at once in  a while for breakfast.

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We meandered our way back to Iowa and made it to Iowa City just in time for a cocktail class at Devotay.

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Cheers to a fabulous weekend.